Saturday, October 10, 2015

A beautiful message shared today

1. John 14: 20 


“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid” 

This is Jesus talking here. 


Read this verse over again!

Jesus tells us that he is giving us peace, but it is not the kind of peace that the world gives. 
If we are "lucky", the world gives us the peace of wealth, health, and happiness, but Jesus is not promising that sort of peace at all. He tells us not to let our hearts be troubled and not to be afraid. Think about that for a moment- we are not to be troubled or afraid, and yet, he is NOT promising the things that you might think of when you think of peace (health, wealth, happiness). 


He is promising us a greater and everlasting peace; the peace of knowing God and having a relationship with him, through Christ. Pause to think about that for a moment: we are offered an everlasting, FOREVER peace with God, the creator of the universe.
  
The kind of peace we think of in this life, even when we do achieve it (health, wealth, happiness), is ALWAYS temporary. It will never give you real peace, because there is always a threat that it will disappear, even when you do have it (money can be taken away, health can disappear, and we can feel unhappy). Whether taken by death or circumstance, the world’s peace will be gone eventually. 


The peace you find in Christ will last forever. Praying for the holy spirit to show you God’s truth and to receive His peace, will help you to feel this true peace. This is the only kind of peace that will settle your heart and mind. 

Wednesday, October 7, 2015

My first social occasion

I almost missed it as I slept till 12 noon today.  Needless to say, I was up quite a bit of the night and thus slept longer when I did finally doze off.

I was supposed to meet my Whitehern group of friends at the Harvest Moon at 11:30.

You can see the problem here, right?  By the time I woke up at 12, I was already half an hour late!

I scurried around as fast as my fat little legs could take me and zoomed out the door with my chariot (walker) and speeded as fast as I could down to Wilson and James North.

It was 1 p.m. by the time I arrived so I just ordered a wonderful corn, rice and chicken soup.  I could not eat it all, so shared some with my friends and still had enough for a couple of small bowls for supper!  All for $7.99.

We had a wonderful time, good conversation, lots of laughs, some serious moments - we are so fortunate to have such a wonderful group of pals to hang out with.

After we left the restaurant, I went to the Italian store next to it to get my yearly supply of underwear and under shirts.  The quality is very good, a little pricey but it is worth it as one does not need to replace them for quite some time.  I still have some from two years ago which are doing fine, but needed more to top up.

I walked home, sat at different spots where the benches are, people watched, enjoyed the sun and the activity and was glad to be well enough to get about.

My friend Rosie is now home from the hospital and I called her to see how she is making out.  She will need a lot of home care for the foreseeable future.

Good to know that she is now home though.

Lots of wonderful events coming up which I hope to be able to do!

Thanks for dropping by.




Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Little by little, I am getting there

My second bed rail arrived yesterday and was installed.  I almost missed him as I was downstairs with my walker getting my mail when he arrived.

Luckily we connected.  It is wonderful to have these bed rails - makes life so much easier especially at this time.  I am still a long way off from being back to normal and have to pace myself in doing things even around the house.

I am thankful to have these bed rails and that they are available for trial and then purchase if it goes through CCAC.  I will buy them as they will be good to have at this age and onward.

My apartment is beginning to look a little better but there still is a lot to get done.  Nothing spectacular just the normal daily events but they take longer than usual.

Today seems to be a dull day but thankfully I have a cozy little home, food on the table and good friends and family.

What more can a person need?

Thanks for dropping by.  Not much is going on until I can get out and about.....


Sunday, September 27, 2015

Linda Marshall's book launch at the Club

On September 23rd, Linda had her first book launch at the Hamilton Club.  There were many people in attendance and almost every seat was filled.  Each guest got a signed copy of her book "Giving Back".

She will have another launch in October and hopefully she will have as many people then.  I understand that her book can be purchased from Amazon as well.

Shendal, as the General Manager of the club, spoke first and then Greg (a very close friend of Linda and her family) introduced Linda to the assembled crowd.

Linda spoke of her experience in writing the book and all the help she had from friends and family. Her words were well received. She spoke of the joys of giving back and related life experiences which have given her insight.


 Linda does speaking engagements and can be reached at linda@marshallconnects.com or twitter  @marshallconx

  Chef Michael prepared a delicious luncheon which also was enjoyed by those assembled.


I took a few pictures but since the room is on the dark side, they are not as clear as they could be.



Shendal welcoming the guests

Greg - introducing Linda

Linda speaking


All in all, a nice event for those who attended.

Thanks for dropping by.

Friday, September 25, 2015

Six weeks away from home


Six weeks ago, this is what I started to write.  "It is now 4:02 p.m. and thus far no call from the drug store who will deliver the items prescribed by the physio therapist.  I am hoping that they will come today. CCAC was contacted by the Emergency doctor at the Juravinski Hospital when they did not admit me.  For those outside of Ontario, CCAC means Community Care Access Center and is the agency who oversees the medical needs of the people in Ontario.  For an example, they can send a physiotherapist, an occupational therapist, personal care worker and many, many other things for
housebound people.  It is like an umbrella - with many spokes.

I have had a lovely day with lots of good company.  David, from the library came over with my "holds" and we had a wonderful chat.  He is an older person but I don't know his age. A very interesting person to talk to and to listen to."

Those were my words of six weeks ago.  A great lapse of time has passed since I put this into the "save" position on blogger so I could finish it. To be exact, six weeks of hospital and convalescent care.

Sometimes it is good that we cannot see into the future.That way we do not fret about it but just carry on when trouble strikes.

How does one describe six weeks which go by in a flash, never to return again?   Three weeks in the Juravinski  hospital in two different wards, then another three weeks in St. Joseph's Villa in Dundas recuperating.

To make a long story short, all the pain that I was enduring was because of a broken bone in the tail-bone.  Suffice it to say, I would not wish the pain and suffering that this brings onto anyone.

I met some lovely people in the hospital, both patients and staff. On the whole, I would say it was a positive experience.

The most positive part was at St. Joseph's Villa where I could receive the care I needed but had more freedom.  There was plenty of routine there as well, but at least I could sit outside in the beautiful grounds or sit on the screened in veranda on my floor.

The grounds there are lovely, it is in a more rural part of Hamilton which I really enjoyed.

Here are a few pictures.
My most favourite spot - the balcony on the 5th floor
I sat out here after breakfast and before physiotherapy and then in the early part of the evenings.

I loved this little welcome sign

The history of the place

Rhona brought me these lovely flowers

This was my little room - I really liked the bed rails - they were so helpful


Part of the recreation room
A lovely picture in the Physiotherapy room.  We had a class of exercises plus four different machines to work on.  I actually enjoyed all of them as it made me stronger.  I also liked the staff there as well.
A larger view of my room
The front of the building where I was
The other side of the building where long term care is provided
The Bill of Rights
Gerri - one of my table mates
Eileen - one of my table mates
Annie - my table mate
My final full day - they had a concert.  I was just lucky to have heard about it so I went.


Part of the recreation room - we had singsongs provided by Frank once or twice a week
Frank is a wonderful man who is a Personal Support Worker.




Two of the highlights for me of my stay at St. Joseph's Villa was when my pal Jeff picked me up and took me to Pier 8 and treated me for lunch and then we sat and chatted while enjoying the water.  I enjoyed this quiet time with a good friend.  Another one was with Jeff also when he picked me up at the Villa and brought me to our annual picnic for the Whitehern guys and gals.  It was a big surprise and we all had a great time.  Jeff played his ukulele and sang which was very enjoyable.

I had emailed him asking permission to put his version of both these events onto my blog as he did such a good job of writing them, but could not find them on facebook anymore.  It is really too bad as I had a good laugh when I read them and wanted to share them with you so you could be amused as well.

Ah well, perhaps I will find them another day but I will publish this now.  Hope you have a good evening and a good sleep.

Wednesday, August 5, 2015

Visit from Kelly and Linda

What a pleasure it was to see both of these gals today.  Boots took to Kelly so wonderfully well that you would think they had known each other all their lives.

Linda and I were amazed with the affection shared  between the cat and the visiting human.

We had a lovely chat and it brightened my day so much to be able to just chat with them and share a few laughs.  

Before their visit, Linda had asked if I had a yearning for anything special and I said Kentucky fried chicken and they kindly brought me some.

I really enjoyed the meal, three pieces of breaded chicken with a nice potato salad.

Good friends and good company are always welcome.

About six o'clock, my neighbour Rosemary dropped by for a nice little visit.  It was great to see her.  She lent me some more DVD's to watch.

Thanks for dropping by.


Saturday, August 1, 2015

The on going saga

It has been fifteen days now that pain has never let me loose.  It has me a vice which is unbreakable even with strong meds.

Walking (baby step by baby step), standing (a few seconds only), sitting and rising are occasions which I never thought much about until this situation occurred.

Point to take here is to always be thankful when your body is in harmony.  It is a real blessing which most of us take for granted. We shouldn't.

I cannot thank people enough for their prayers, thoughts and practical actions in this difficult time.

Their loving kindness wraps me up in a warm blanket soothing my hurting body and reminding me of the wonderful people in my life.

The Doctor at the Emergency said that it may take a few weeks before I can do much so it is a lesson in how to graciously accept help from those kind people who are taking me under their wing.

Similar to Almighty God, who in spite of our brokenness, surround us with His love and compassion and care.

My favourite saying from the Bible is this:

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths."  Proverbs 3, vs. 5 & 6

Thanks for dropping by and may God keep you under His care and protection as you walk along this rocky path called life.